When your skills, talents and passions are not supported in the workplace
In a previous life, in a previous career, I was told pretty regularly that I spent too much time with my clients on the phone. I was told that I used my heart too much and needed to think more about bottom line. I was told in staff meetings that I was a tree hugger because I encouraged double sided copies. To a true environmentalist, this is not radical or worthy of a comment I am sure. Anyway, I was not in alignment with my natural skills, talents and passions. There were many things that kept me in that job. I was good at it, it paid really well, I was advancing and the things I was good at that made the business money were supported. I enjoyed my clients when I was able to build real relationships with them and I had a rule for myself – while I had to listen to my boss and cut down on the calls that did not connect directly with the bottom line, or money, I would allow myself one client a week that I would give the extra time to, even though I knew I could not ‘benefit’ from our time together. Often this would be done on my own time, not my company’s time.
In this job I often used words like stressed, overwhelmed, tired, etc. Words that are all too common in our culture. I challenge anyone to find a more flexible corporate and supportive job then the one I had. However, I was still out of alignment. Yesterday during a yearly physical my doctor said that there were 10 things he wanted to go over. When we got to number 4 he asked about my stress level. Somewhat embarrassed, I said that I really didn’t have any. I said that while things aren’t always calm, I have figured out ways to combat the overwhelm (daily meditation and exercise as well as time to myself) before it becomes too much and have created a work, family situation that is in alignment with my needs.
Don’t forget that the most important thing in the life is to follow your heart and to develop your inner talents.
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